Thursday, September 26, 2024

Five Years of 55+ Community Living: Six Barbservations

 

In 2019, my husband and I purchased a brand new home in an age 55+ community located in Ocala, Florida. With five years of experience living here, now is a good time to reflect on this experience. Below are some insights for others who might be considering a similar move:




HOA Living- Our homeowners’ association (HOA) fee includes two community clubhouses; amenities (e.g., spa, pool, bocce and pickleball courts), landscaping, and a lifestyle office that organizes dozens of monthly events for residents. Cable, internet, and lawn mowing are not included. In 2019, our HOA fee was $200. Today, it is $245, a relatively modest $45 (22.5%) five-year increase driven by inflationary trends and improvements and additions to community amenities. There are many rules (e.g. no political lawn signs and specified house paint colors) and changes to landscaping and house exteriors require HOA approval.

 

Transitory Residents- I’ve been amazed at how many residents have moved away from- or even within- the community in just five years. Common “triggers” for moving have included an unhappy spouse, desire for a larger house or more land or a smaller house, inability to afford and/or maintain a home following widowhood, desire to live closer to family (especially following widowhood or the birth of a first grandchild), illness, and just plain aging and a need for assistance with activities of daily living.

 

Plentiful Activities- There is literally a formally organized club or interest group for everyone. I joined several that reflect my interests (bocce, computer, culture vultures, and travel). In addition, there are plays put on by community residents, concerts, music bingo games, food truck nights, seminar speakers, and more. On top of that, the city of Ocala has so many events and cultural activities, all within a short drive, including those at the World Equestrian Center.

 

Conversation  Topics- People don’t spend a lot of time talking about work they used to do or, like me, are still doing….unless it is a conversation with someone who is also working. It turns out, there are a number of us. We now have a Facebook group just for residents who own small home-based businesses and I was amazed to see the variety (e.g., artists teaching painting classes, hairdressers, real estate agents, pet sitters, airport drivers, etc.). Top conversation topics among those who are not working include family members, health issues, community events, HOA rules, the price that departing neighbors’ houses are listed and selling for, and travel.

 

Peace, Quiet, Security, and Socialization- My community is located away from major roads and gated, which provides a decent level of security. Compared to our New Jersey house, it is also very quiet. There is no street noise or wild parties by neighbors with teenagers. Our houses are only 10 feet apart from each other so people know their neighbor’s names and often help each other out. We also have monthly ladies lunch groups to socialize with neighbors.

 

It May Be Temporary- Many people leave when their health deteriorates. Age 55+ communities are great when people can live independently. Not so much when they have major health issues, especially when they are solo agers (i.e., people without a spouse and children) or have family members that live far away. My husband and I have already made plans to move into our final home in a continuing care retirement (a.k.a., lifecare) community in 2033 for a seamless continuum of care in later life. 


This post provides general personal finance or consumer decision-making information and does not address all the variables that apply to an individual’s unique situation. It does not endorse specific products or services and should not be construed as legal or financial advice. If professional assistance is required, the services of a competent professional should be sought.

 



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Five Years of 55+ Community Living: Six Barbservations

  In 2019, my husband and I purchased a brand new home in an age 55+ community located in Ocala, Florida. With five years of experience livi...